Wednesday, May 9, 2018

Vacation at Sandals Resort: Sandals Montego Bay


My fiance and I went to Sandals Montego Bay and are loving the vacation spot.










Today we went snorkeling and I was confused when they had us take a 20-minute class on intro to snorkeling. We went into a pool and we were taught how to put on a snorkel mask and how to use the snorkel.  To me it wasn't worth the introduction, but since it's included in the hotel I went with it.  Joe said it made snorkeling more enjoyable for him.

Soon we were off to the ocean to actually explore.  YAY! It was a very fun time. After a quick boat ride (you could still see the resort from the boat) and they said go explore. I'm terrified of sharks, which we didn't see, but I got in the ocean for about 10 minutes before I decided to get back on the boat. 

Eco- rant: I was very happy to see the coral alive and fish underneath my viewing point. I wish the resort recycled better though. Most of the drinks are in reusable glasses, but water bottles and beer cans should still have a recycling point. In the rooms recycling is not option.  I have a reusable water bottle with me.

The food here has been mostly good, nothing bad. Last night we ate at a Japanese restaurant and it was very good. The food was made in front of you and was a great stir-fry. 

The breakfast was a normal buffet, something ok for everyone. I recommend the fruit. 

Tonight we are eating at the Oleander Room which serves caribbean cuisine.

Also, there has been a lot of rain. The mornings are amazing - lots of sun and then around noon summer showers come and go. As much as it makes me sad that the sun goes away, the Wi-Fi is good, so I can do some work.

My favorite restaurant so far is the cafe which has a good cappuccino. Also, I love how warm it is but not crazy humid.  I wish it rained less but I'm happy typing away on my balcony watching it rain on the ocean. 

Thursday, May 3, 2018

Echosmith Show: Another Solid Show at the 9:30 Club!


My name is Joe. I am Megan's fiance. We went to an amazing concert at the 9:30 club on Sunday, 4/29. Here is my recap.

I got tickets for this concert last December just browsing around. I really wanted to see the band that wrote "Cool Kids" as it is a great and fun song! After I bought tickets I ended up buying the album "Talking Dreams" and really enjoyed the tracks on it. I then bought their Christmas album which is also really good and then the "Inside a Dream" EP they ended up releasing shortly thereafter. Their music is fun and upbeat so that is why I went to the concert.

We got to the 9:30 club about 5 minutes after the doors opened as the show wasn't sold out so I wasn't too worried. I have never been upstairs at the 9:30 club as I love to get as close to the band as possible. This time we went upstairs so we could try to get a better view and lean on the railing. The view up there is incredible, but the venue is great. There isn't a bad view anywhere in the whole venue! Just look at the picture at the beginning of this article. Great views! Unlike the Anthem, which has generally good views but you really gotta squint to see the band sometimes.

Also, being 31 years old I was probably older compared to the average person there, but far from the oldest. Echosmith has very broad appeal and catchy tunes so not surprised to see all sorts of people represented!

Anyway, the doors opened at 7:00 and the first opener went on at 8:15. This was Jena Rose. She did a really good job but I could tell she was newer to the scene. She had trouble to make the crowd clap their hands with her and stuff. However, for Boy with the Balloon the audience did a good job of holding out their phone lights and it really helped sell the song. That was my favorite song that she did. I recommend checking her out to see if you like her music. I also liked that she wore a jumpsuit, it was a different look from what I normally see most artists wear. Her single, The Boy with the Balloon, is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Rakm5i5D3I

Next up at 8:55 was the second opener, The Score. This band was a huge surprise and I LOVE them. I actually went and bought their album right after. They sound like a cross between Imagine Dragons and Walk the Moon. But they are really their own thing. You may have heard them on the radio before with their single "Oh My Love". But I loved all of their songs. My favorite was a tossup between Legend and Revolution. But really that album is great and only $7.99 on Amazon. I remember at one point that the lead guy complained that he needed some "microphone tape, because this one keeps slipping all over the fucking place'. He had an upbeat attitude and ended with "Strange" to remind people that they are perfect the way they are. Songs that reflect how people feel and help them feel great.

You can find the famous single "Oh My Love"  (apparently "famous" because it debuted in a british grocery store chain commercial) here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXTg7owzmYo

Echosmith's hit single if you never heard it before: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSCzDykng4g

After a very quick turnaround Echosmith came on stage and they immediately fired the confetti guns. Which gave me the great photo at the top of this article. They played all their hits (but they have so many in my opinion). The first cool thing I noticed was that at the end of Bright she did a short duet of "I Will Follow You Into the Dark" by Death Cab for Cutie. For Talking Dreams she replaced "let's run away to NYC" with "let's run away to DC". Love it when a performer hams up it a bit for the crowd.

Her mom also came on stage briefly and Sydney told us to buy their sweatshirts that said "Life is Great" on them. However, her mom quickly informed her that they were SOLD OUT. So that was a little awkward.

I forget what song it was but eventually she was spinning a parasol at some point and invited this awesome kid named "Reed" up on stage (I hope I remembered his name right). She had him up there dancing and singing along with her while twirling his own parasol. He seemed so EXCITED To be up there and I thought that was amazing. That excitement and happiness seemed to rub off on the whole crowd and just made for a better experience.

 The second from last song was a cover of "When You Were Young" by the Killers. She gave a different take on the song which I love when people do. Then the last song before the encore was "Goodbye" and they threw a bunch of balloons filled with confetti for the crowd to bounce around. People are jerks is all I gotta say. They kept nailing the drummer with those balloons by bouncing them up on stage. Which in a venue as intimate as the 9:30 club is bound to happen. But no worries. Sydney had a knife and started stabbing the balloons in an explosion of confetti. I suspect this was part of the act, but who knows? Since they were filled with confetti I think it was.

Then they went off stage and we only had to cheer for like 2 minutes to get the one song encore of Cool Kids. One of the shortest encores I ever had to wait for. I've waited 10-15 minutes before and I bet other bands have made people wait longer. 

She opened Cool Kids by reminding us that we are not alone. You may not feel like a cool kid or whatever, but that's okay. We are each so important than anyone else. I am reminded by something I think I saw on TV. "You mean someone important, not like me." Then this person told that guy "I've never met anyone who wasn't important." I suspect Doctor Who said that but I am not 100% sure. It is a 100% factual statement though. Everyone is important, no one is more important than anyone else, I hope we can all remember that.

Anyway, during the song the whole crowd was dancing and singing along and I hugged and spun Megan doing the best dance moves I could possibly do. The energy of that ending performance was infectious. We had a happy buzz all of the way home and into the next day.

So overall 9/10 show. Then again the 9:30 club always has great shows. My favorite concert I ever saw was there (Jimmy Eat World Futures 10x tour).

Like all concerts I also wore ear plugs for most of the performance, trust me, you gotta do it. No one at the show cares and if it is good enough for the band it is good enough for me. I saw some good parents making their young kids wear hearing protection too so glad to see the trend is picking up. WEAR HEARING PROTECTION AT CONCERTS

Anyway, this is getting kind of long so I am gonna stop here. I may be back for other reviews from time to time so hoped you enjoyed reading this one. Go listen to Jena Rose, The Score, and Echosmith now! You'll enjoy them.

Saturday, April 28, 2018

My 5 Favorite April Buys

My Favorite April purchases 

1. SEPHORA COLLECTION

Precision Pore Cleansing Pad
Despite only being $6, this easy to use silicone pad makes my cleanser work much better.   I use it every night now.   2.MURAD

Multi-Vitamin Infusion Oil trial size 
My skin feels so soft after using just a drop or two. I will rebuy. I use it after my nightly serum. 

3. TATCHA

The Silk Canvas Protective Primer
This primer is so smooth. I just wish it wasn't so expensive ($52).  It felt great and very light - but when I do get it it will be a treat.  I'm currently using the Smashbox primer which is slightly heavy but works great.  


4. CLINIQUEBeyond Perfecting Foundation + Concealer
So many shades for this product!  After using up all some of my other foundations (I have 4 I'm using currently), I will rebuy. It matched my skin completely. However, I did need a concealer for under my eyes as well.  
5. 

Print Fit & Flare Dress

TAHARI


I bought this dress for my engagement photos. (Photos coming soon) I felt so skinny in it and got lots of compliments all day :) 



Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Fashion is a Collection of Votes

Fashion isn't one piece x how many pieces you have in a collection.  Fashion is a unit, a collection all working together to show your style.

Your stuff tells the world who you are.  Clothing is one way someone expresses their vision because we have to wear clothes.  Even if you think a piece doesn't tell your story because you don't care what you wear, that still is a choice. Whatever you do choose is a choice.

If you don't think an item fits your vision on who you want to be anymore, get rid of it. If you wear an item again and again, how can you say this piece isn't who you are.  Also, you don't have to be just 1 style. You can choose multiple styles. Even a uniform, you are choosing to be part of the displayed group.  Anywhere you spend your time is part of who you are.  You vote with your money and your time.  Each piece I own should have been thought about and voted on.

Spring cleaning is a good time to think about our presentation and starting new.  I'm bringing stuff to Goodwill because my past self isn't the same as who I am currently. I have lots of stuff I don't need.  Each day is new and I have choices to make.



Friday, March 30, 2018

Broken Arm: Helping Hand

I really wish I was left handed because that would make writing this easier. However I still want to write this - one letter typed at a time. I fractured my right arm and everything is now harder.  I didn't realize how many activities require two hands until I only had one useful one.

Thankfully, I will only be in a sling for a week + (hopefully).  It could have been much much worse. However, I have to rely on other people; this is hard for me. Asking for help is difficult, it reminds me of my imperfections which is something I don't like admitting. I put on a face of makeup everyday to make myself look great, I wear clothes that are pretty and I just work hard to impress myself and others everyday.  I was even worried about how people would see me in a cast.

However, other areas in our lives we give in and ask for help. We ask for help at work and with fitness. At work asking for advice and peoples time can makes us better employees. We learn new things and develop new skills. In fitness, we get trainers to tell us what we are doing wrong.  We ask trainers to point out our mistakes.

Maybe it because we don't want others that are closest to us to see us as weak. However, those are the people who should see us at our weakest. They should see every aspect of our true self. My fiance should see me without makeup, when I'm crying, when I'm sick and love me just as much.  When I ask for help at home it makes my fiance feel like he is helping. It makes our relationship stronger. It's not people closest to me wanted this to happen to me, but since it did happen they want to accomplish taking away some of the difficulties. In addition, they should know that they have someone that will help them without judgement too.

Helping others helps ourselves grow. This holiday weekend try to help one person, I guarantee it's hard for them to ask.



Wednesday, March 28, 2018

March: Not saving Anything

I had a bad month at trying to achieve my savings goal. I'm pretty sure I used savings, not added savings. Part of it was my fault, part was too many unexpected turns this month. However, once I knew I was over for the month, I gave up. I just completely didn't care anymore how far I went.  I didn't buy anything dramatic, but the little things added up quickly. I spent way too much on makeup. I went out with my friends. I started buying and couldn't stop. No one thing was bad, but all of them together added up. I needed everything that I could possible want. 

A few days later I was really mad at myself. I returned a bunch of stuff I had bought and got back in the mindset of savings but most of the damage had been done. Manicures, pedicures, outfits I didn't need all had made it on my credit card.  I could afford it, but did that make it right?  No. I had goals I want to meet. However, that voice in my head is loud when she wants to be.  Not spending money is a habit that needs to be practiced.

So what do you do when you make a mistake? I am still learning to forgive myself. Forgive yourself, return the purchases that you don't need and start again. Try again every day.

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Makeup Companies Should Make More Travel Sizes

Makeup companies, I love!!!! travel sizes but not all products come in mini :( 

I don't just buy the travel size for traveling, I buy the size for everyday use. I love playing with makeup. I love trying a product but sometimes it takes me a while to get though the entire container. I know you want me to use the product forever, but having me get tired of the product won't make me want to re-buy either. I want to be excited about the product and tell all of my friends- not get upset at myself for not liking it enough and toss it in the trash.  Travel sizes give me a quick look at product, make me pay for it so I don't have to feel guilty for returning it, but actually give me enough product to see if I really like it. 

For example, some serums I need to really give a good try before I can commit to the $50-100 + price tag. Drunk Elephant did this well in my opinion. They gave away a travel size of the DRUNK ELEPHANT Beste™ No. 9 Jelly Cleanser  and now I have a good opinion of the brand. I can't get the same opinion in a one use sample. I'm looking forward to trying the DRUNK ELEPHANT C-Firma™ Day Serum which is $80. I would not have spent that much money on a serum if I didn't trust the brand. 



Makeup companies need to earn each individuals trust. The best way to get trust is for people to try the product. Travel sizes are my favorite way of getting to know a brand. However, I wish travel sizes didn't all come in huge baskets and groups of products that you have to buy together. I don't need every product at the same time. Right now I have too many moisturizers but not enough cleansers. Don't make your customers waste product to try your product. 

Would you buy travel sizes if they were offered? 


Saturday, March 10, 2018

The 7 Day Sheet Mask Challenge

This week I did the 7 day sheet mask challenge. I used 7 sheet mask nightly before bed for 7 days in a row. They were all different masks, but were applied around the same time. I wanted to try this while traveling to see what benefits I could see. Sadly I was disappointed.

In my view, my skin doesn't look much different before applying make up when comparing today and 7 days ago. However, my face does feel extremely soft and hydrated compared to normal.   Despite seeing positive results in texture, having slightly more hydrated skin is not worth spending money daily on a sheet mask. Some sheets masks can get expensive.

In this challenge, I got all but one at CVS.  To compare, I should try this experiment with a combination of more expensive masks with another challenge. In addition to cost factor, some masks from this week I would not recommend at all. A good nightly moisturizer can hydrate just as well.




What sheet mask do you recommend?

Wednesday, March 7, 2018

Travel Tip: Always Bring Extra Makeup Removers Wipes

Here are my favorites: 

1) La Fresh Makeup Remover Cleansing Travel Wipes – Natural, Waterproof, Facial Towelettes With Vitamin E – Individually Wrapped & Sealed Packets (Large Size - 50 Count)

These are perfect for any makeup kit.

2) Neutrogena Cleansing Makeup Remover Facial Wipes, Waterproof Mascara Remover






I'm traveling this week and brought one travel pack for 5 days. Thankfully, I always have a few individual wipes in my makeup bag. However, this hasn't been the first time I had to go to my backup makeup kit. Always bring a backup for all your essentials skin care. 


What is your favorite makeup travel products? 

Wednesday, February 28, 2018

Product of the Week: FRESH Rose Face Mask Mini

This week the product I'm highlighting is: 


FRESHRose Face Mask Mini
I use it every night as part of my nightly moisturizing routine.  It smell amazing and the mask makes my face feel really soft and clean. 
Fresh is one of my favorite lines because products like this one are formulated without:- Parabens
- Sulfates
- Phthalates


I actually thought I wouldn't like it because of the dark color of the gel mask. However when I put it on, I completely changed my mind. 


What is your favorite product going into Spring?